THIS Is What High-Quality Women Look For In a Man
And it's not what your favorite red-pill guru or gigolo pick-up artist has been telling you.
What do I mean by “high-quality woman”?
First, let me tell you who I’m not talking about.
I’m not talking about women who twerk half-naked on tiktok, regardless of how “hot” they are.
I’m not talking about women who party all the time and get drunk frequently.
I’m not talking about women who view themselves as “bad bitches”, “boss bitches” or anything like that.
I’m not talking about women who think themselves empowered for having a bodycount that would shame the whores of Babylon.
I’m definitely not talking about feminists.
What I’m talking about is pretty simple to describe: a high-quality woman is one that would make a good wife. Virtuous, guards her honor, is family-oriented, radiant, nice and supportive. Notice that I didn’t say “hot”, because tha’s not nearly as important when choosing a wife as the porn-induced culture would have you believe. Yes, you have to be physically attracted to your woman, of course. But too many men see that as the only characteristic that makes a woman a “ten”, or high-quality.
Now this is not a "pickup" blog. Which means that this post is not a post about "game". "Game" is lame. "Game" focuses on manipulating human psychology and faking characteristics that make a man attractive in order to physically attract a woman. That's weak and dishonest.
However, I know that becoming an attractive man is a topic that many men struggle with —I know I did when I was younger—. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be more appealing for women. At the end of the day, if you want a good, healthy family, you need a good, high quality partner. And to get that partner, you need to be a good, high-quality man yourself.
It's not rocket science. But I know that for many men, specifically young ones, the particular question of how to be a man that high-quality women want to be with is one that fills up a lot of their mental space. And because I’m here to help men that want to be better, allow me to share with you a couple of very important characteristics that you ought to pursue in order to find yourself a good partner.
Oh, and a final disclaimer: these principles apply both to single men, and by men in a relationship. Attraction is equally (if not more) important if you already have a partner. You can't slack off if you've already found a good woman. If you wish to keep her, you better make sure you don’t become lazy and boring, because that will just lead to her losing respect for you —understandably so. And once that happens, it will be very difficult to keep a healthy relationship going.
There's a common mistake that men make and that is that they find a good woman, and then they slack off and become fat, lazy and boring. And then, their wife leaves them and they're left wondering what happened. Dude, it's your responsibility to be attractive to your wife, same as it's her responsibility to be an attractive woman for you. Physical attraction is important in a relationship (of course), and you have a responsibility to maintain it, or you’ll watch your relationship suffer. Make sure you keep these principles present, so that you can attract a quality partner if you’re single, or make sure your wife respects and adores the man you are if you’re married:
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