This Is Why You Can't Find a Good Woman

Hint: it's not because they don't exist anymore

The single most common complaint by young men today when it comes to dating and relationships is that they cannot find a good woman. At least that’s been the complain I have personally heard the most in my interactions with friends in my personal life and with followers and subscribers of Simple Men. It’s very eye opening to see how deeply young men yearn for the company and support of a more traditional kind of woman. Even those men who are consumed by the temptations of the world openly state that the women they devote their time and energy to every weekend are not the kind of women they would ever consider marrying. And this claim is always followed by the same defeatist statement: “there just aren’t any good women left.”

Every man wants a good woman. We all know we do. Many even think they deserve one. And yet most of these men keep sleeping around, watching porn, partying constantly, getting drunk and engaging in degeneracy. And then they complain that there aren’t any good women left. No wonder. Do you think the archetypal biblical wife will be found at a nightclub, half-naked, drunk since 7pm and flirting with all the men around her?

As always, don’t believe I’m writing this with the intent to judge. I’m one of these men I talk about. Or I was for a long time. I have no problem being honest, and telling you that I also used to surround myself with degeneracy, and then, blind to the irony and hypocrisy of it all, claim that there weren’t any good women left.

We complain, and arrogantly claim that we deserve something while making no merits and showing no proof we could actually take on the responsibility of caring for and leading one of God’s beloved daughters properly.

It’s true that good women are rare nowadays. The same is true for good men. But I want you to take a different approach to this matter and ask yourself this: What’s more likely? That there are literally zero women with good values or that you are not yet good enough to attract one of them?

We know that it’s not easy to find a good woman nowadays, and there are many reasons for this. Some are obvious: the world has become more liberal, promiscuity is glorified, feminism has poisoned the minds of many, and the overarching emasculation of men has made it so the natural order and gender dynamics are now all over the place. But there are also a lot of reasons that are directly under your control, and we don’t seem to be discussing them nearly as much as we discuss the environmental factors that are making it difficult for young men all over the world to find good wives. From what I’ve seen, there are, aside from the reasons already mentioned, 4 significant reasons why men can’t seem to find and attract a good woman into their lives.

I expect this article to be somewhat controversial, because this is a topic that is loaded emotionally. Also, because it’s always easier to just point fingers and blame outside factors than it is to take a long hard look at yourself and realize that you also have a lot of responsibility on the matter. I encourage you to read the whole article before commenting, and to see if you feel at all reflected in what I’m about to describe. Remember, I’m not trying to be judgmental or sit on my high horse to claim I’m better. I’m not, and I include myself in every criticism and aspect that I mention here. Simply ask yourself, with an open mind, if the reasons explained here could be true for your own life, and if fixing them could potentially aid you in finding the good woman you yearn for.

I will explain what these issues are and then I’ll give you specific strategies to fix them. If you do, I GUARANTEE you will eventually find a great woman to build a family with, and she’ll fall head over heels for you.

So why exactly is it that you can’t seem to find a good woman?